TMI Tuesday and My First Blog Award!

Check out that button over there on the right!  The fabulous Hope sent me that as her way of showing her thanks for some stuff I’ve done to support her work to provide support to American men and women deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan.  Click here and here for examples and here to learn more about just what she does.

You really didn’t need to thank me, Hope, it’s my pleasure to do my part!

And you may have noticed that the other banner is gone.  I agreed to put up that banner in return for that website listing me in their directory of swingers with blogs, but after over a month and they still hadn’t listed me, I deleted their banner.  It wasn’t that important anyway.

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Thanks for the positive feedback on my post yesterday suggesting some sort of “Ask the swingers” column.  I’m going to try and make it a regular feature on every Monday.  If you have any questions, don’t be shy!  And if you are shy, you can ask that I keep your identity anonymous.

Also, even if you’re not interested in actually participating in the lifestyle but have some questions purely out of curiosity, I’m still more than happy to answer your questions.

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On to this weeks TMI questions…

1. Would you stay in a loveless relationship for the amazing sex?

Hell no!  Not that I’ve ever been in one, but it takes more than amazing sex to sustain a relationship.

2. If you could only have one, which would you choose: love that lasts forever or great, body numbing sex

Love that lasts forever.  Someday, physiology will fail all of us and sex will become less, well, good.  That’s just the way it goes, IMHO, but love will still be there.

Good lord I sound like such a romantic this week.  What the fuck’s up with me?  lol…

Wait, now I’m re-reading the question and wondering if the great, body numbing sex is just once or for a lifetime.  Shit, I might have to reconsider!

3. Looking back at your past loves, which one should you have married/taken back and who should you have tossed earlier than you did?

Never really had a past love, seeing as how I was 20 and Veronica was 18 when we met.  There was one serious girlfriend in high school, but I know better now.

4. If you had one last fuck in you where, how and who would you “give it” to?

Well obviously it would be with Veronica!  Duh!

Hopefully it will be in old age, in our bed.  While I’d like to think it will be passionate and energetic, if I live as long as I hope, it’ll be creaky and ugly to watch!  Let’s face it, who’d want to watch some old, wrinkly people bumpin’ uglies?

5. Which is more important, sex, money, love or happiness? (and no, you can’t pick’em all)

Love, because love begets sex AND happiness, in my opinion.  So there, I picked one but found a way to get 3.  As for money, oh well…

Happy TMI!!