TMI Tuesday 184

After the response to Stretch, Veronica asked me just what it is about trying fisting that is arousing and erotic to me.

And I didn’t have an answer.  All I know is that I like the idea, the mental image of seeing my hand inside her, the thought of how it might feel.

At some point I hope to come back to this and write more, once I’ve had the time to gather my thoughts.  In the meantime, I’d like to ask my readers who have tried this, what did/do you find arousing?  Please tell me.  If you’re not comfortable leaving a comment disclosing this, you can e-mail me and I’ll keep your thoughts between us.

Veronica has her own thoughts about what she finds erotic about it, so perhaps she’ll share them when I return to this topic some other time.

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Another week of questions from an anonymous contributor.  Since Veronica is the only long-term lover I’ve ever had, some of my answers may be brief.

1. Have you ever had angry sex?

Yes.  Sometimes make-up sex happens when you’re still mad at someone and that anger fuels the aggression in bed.

2. Pity sex?

No. I can’t imagine having sex with someone because I feel bad for them.  Not going to do that, ever.

3. “Oh well, I might as well” sex?

Sure.  There have been times when I haven’t been in the mood [yes, it happens for guys too!] but she’s been really horny, so what the hell, I get myself into the mood.  And I think the same attitude applies when we get started, only to discover that either her period has started early, or isn’t quite gone yet, and things get a little messy.  That’s an “Oh well, we’ve already started anyway, might as well continue” situation.

4. One-of-you-knew-it-was-goodbye-and-the-other-didn’t sex?

Never.  I’m still with the woman I lost my virginity too.

5. Don’t-remember-having-it sex?

Never.  If I’m drunk enough to have a lapse in memory, I’m drunk enough that I wouldn’t be able to get it up.  Of course, after almost 19yrs together, I’m sure there are instances where Veronica might say “Remember when…?” and I won’t have a clue

6. Regret-it-afterward sex?

Once. Readers of our old invite-only blog might remember Ned and Ann.  Not only was the sex bad [scroll down for the bonus question!], afterward Veronica had what she succinctly called “worst. sex. ever.” but she felt pressured to fuck him because I was so hot for Ann.  That entire experience was a mistake.

7. Can’t-remember-his/her-name sex?

No.  And I still remember every one of them.  Not that there’s been that many.

8. Never-knew-his/her-name sex?

Well, I knew her stripper name.  Her real name?  Not a freakin’ clue.  And I don’t know the last names of several swinging partners.

Bonus: What was the worst single sexual experience of your life?

Back to Ned and Ann.  I inadvertantly pressured Veronica into fucking Ned so that I can fuck Ann, then Ann was the single worst lay of my life.  Boring oral skills, I can’t remember her saying a word the entire time we were nekkid, and she literally just layed there.  She quite possibly had the best body of any lover I’ve ever had, yet I’d never fuck her again.

As far as consequences go, paying for sex and getting caught by Veronica.  ‘Nuff said.