TMI Tuesday and Thanks

Just so you all know, as I’m starting to draft this post, my darling wife Veronica is driving me mad flipping back and forth between “24″ and “Dancing with the Stars”.  I’m almost ashamed to admit that she just called in to vote for Steve Wozniak 6 TIMES! I know she’s doing so for the potential comedic value of watching him continue to attempt to dance, but still….

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If you saw my post yesterday you know that I’ve been in a bit of a rut with blogging.  Not that I pay too much attention to my blog stats, but I do look occasionally, and have noticed a steady decline in both of the number of visitors I get each day and the number of comments.  If I truly didn’t care about feedback I’d just keep a journal and stick it under my pillow at night, and I suspect a number of you might feel the same way.

Literally as I’m sitting on the couch contemplating this, I get this e-mail message (edited for privacy issues):

Hey hubman, Just wanted to let you know that we read both yours and Veronica’s blog.  We are a married couple 42 and 38 that has been swinging for about 2 years.  It helps so much to read about other couples like us and your experiences.  We look forward to reading more about your sexy (and everyday life) experiences in the future.

Perfect!  Just the sort of out-of-the-blue compliment to put a smile on my face.

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OOhhhh, some good TMI questions this week from another guest contributor!

1. Are you pro-marriage? Why or why not?

If I say yes, does that make me anti-living in sin? Yes, I’m pro-marriage, Veronica and I have been married for 15 years!  AND I’m pro-gay marriage.

2. Have you ever invented or thought you invented a sexual position?

I can hardly claim to be that creative!  Though I have found myself in a position that made me say “Whoa, this is cool”.  Of course, it involved 4 people…  [Yes, SwingerWife, I'm referring to the 4 of us...]

3. Do you like to be tied up? Always or sometimes?

I’ve never really gotten into that.  For a little joking playing around, sure, but that’s about it.

4. Do you consider online cybering adultery?

Anytime someone has an emotional and/or physical relationship with someone other than their spouse/SO, without that persons okay, it’s cheating.  Online or in person, cheating is cheating.

5. Do you prefer masturbation over real sex?

Hell NO!  I can’t even remember the last time I jerked off.  Oh, wait, my occasional mystery HNT guest inspired me a few days ago, though she doesn’t know it.  Well, she knows now *wink*

6. Do you want sex more times a day than your partner?

Depends on the day, but most of the time Veronica and I are very well matched in our sex drive.  I’m a very lucky man.  How do you think we managed to have sex 3 times in one day, on a weekday?

7. Do you get offended when you partner openly flirts with others or are you okay with it?

Hell no I’m not offended, especially if whoever Veronica is flirting with is either a) a hot chick or b) a guy with a hot chick.  How do you think we find playmates?

8. Do you think you’re flirty by nature?

I asked Veronica about this.  “Yes, you are” was her immediate reply.  So there you have it.