WHAT is a Hubman, anyway?  Veronica has referred to me as her hubby, as her man, combine the two, you get Hubman!  We’ve been married for almost 16 years and got into the swinging lifestyle about a year ago.  While I mostly write about sex and our adventures, together and with various naughty friends, that’s not all that you’ll read about.  You may also read about our lives in general, our crazy kids, and the various ways that Veronica can drive me crazy.  Oh, and we both regularly participate in the Half-Nekkid Thursday fun   You can contact me at hubman38 at gmail dot com.

100 Things about Hubman:

1. Lucky husband of Veronica, aka Another Suburban Mom

2. Proud father of an 9 yr old son, Darling Boy (DB) and a 3 year old daughter, Princess Persistent (PP)

3. We’ve been married 15 years, 16 on August 22nd

4. Veronica took my virginity (OK, I quite willingly gave it away!) when I was 20. Yup, late starter, though not for lack of effort!

5. Veronica and I grew up in 2 towns away from each other, and had relatives that knew each other 40 years earlier, but we didn’t meet until we went to college 250 miles from home.

6. My favorite ways to get exercise are to ride my bicycle, lift weights and practice yoga

7. In spite of my mother being an accomplished musician and singer, I can’t sing worth a damn or play any musical instrument

8. I’m too self-conscious of how I look to enjoy dancing

9. Veronica picked me up at a keg party in college

10. We lived together for a year before we got married, and shared a house with 4 other guys, one of whom was a former lover of hers!

11. I’m a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist

12. I got my masters and doctoral degrees without any student loans (thanks for being my sugar momma, Veronica!)

13. I love nothing more than playing with my kids

14. I wish I could get Veronica and the kids to enjoy cycling as much as I do

15. I wish I could get DB to learn to catch a baseball- I’d love to play catch in the yard with him

16. We have an overweight beagle, who was our first ‘child’

17. When Veronica was pregnant with DB, I gained 20 lbs!

18. I’ve only broken 2 bones in my life- my nose and my right ring finger

19. I’m a registered Democrat, but

20. I support an individual’s right to own a firearm, within limits

21. I’m pro-choice

22. I have a terrible sweet tooth, especially for ice cream and chocolate in any form

23. I’m 39 years old

24. When I reach 40, I want to be able to say that I’m in the best shape of my life

25. Someday, I want to get on my bicycle, start pedaling, and not stop until I’ve covered 100 miles, known as a century ride.

26. I want to be able to comfortably wear a size 32 waist pair of jeans again and weight ~180 lbs. That’s down 3 inches and 15 lbs from my current size.

27. I work in biomedical research.

28. Veronica and I make love/ have sex/ fuck an average of 6 days per week, sometimes more than once a day. Not bad for our 19th year together!

29. I lost my virginity to Veronica on a Friday the 13th. Who says that day can be bad luck? We had sex 4 times in 3 hours that night!!!!

30. I introduced Veronica to anal sex, not that I knew what I was doing the first time either!

31. We discovered the pleasure of cunnilingus together. Previous lovers tried it with her, but they never did it enough with her to get into it and enjoy it.

32. We’ve lived in 7 homes or apartments in 4 states in the 15 years we have been married.

33. Our current home is the second one we’ve owned. Or, at least own a small piece of, since the bank owns most of it!

34. I have never owned a new car. The newest I’ve owned is the truck I currently drive, which was 1 year old when I got it.

35. I learned how to ride a motorcycle last year.

36. As soon as I learned how to ride, I bought a Kawasaki Vulcan 750. Used, of course.

37. Veronica and I enjoy going to strip clubs together and checking out the ladies.

38. I can’t wait until Veronica reaches her weight loss goal and gets on stage for amateur night at our favorite all nude club. The thought of her showing her beautiful tits and luscious pussy to a room full of strange men is very arousing!

39. I have a sister 2 years younger than me.

40. My parents divorced when I was 16.

41. My mother re-married when I was in my early 20s, to a man who is a retired Bishop and 23 years her senior

42. My father has been living with the same woman for almost 20 years, but she refuses to marry him, which is fine by me

43. When I was a kid, I loved flying. It was always a huge thrill. Now that I occasionally have to travel for work, I hate it. Could the fact that I’m 6’2” tall have anything to do with it?

44. I once spent 7 days living in a tent in the Sahara desert

45. That was the only time in my life so far that I have left the United States, except for a 4 day vacation to St. Maarten when I was in college

46. My sister refers to me as Literal Man and my son DB as Exacto-Boy. Like father like son.

47. In the last year Veronica and I have jumped feet-first into the swinging lifestyle

48. Why didn’t we start swinging sooner?  Our sex life has never been better!

49. I have never been prescribed an anti-biotic and rarely get sick. I have never had strep throat, bronchitis, an ear infection, pink eye, mono or any other of a number of common illnesses.

50. As I kid, I loved playing with my Legos. I’ve kept almost all of them (probably 10,000+ pieces) and DB and I occasionally build something together.

51. In high school, I was a state champion and nationally ranked BMX racer

52. I worry about my parent’s health. Neither of them take particular good care of themselves and it shows, in more ways than one

53. Veronica and I would both be mortified if any of our immediate family members knew about our blogs and the intimate details we share with strangers

54. We are a family of Yankees and Giants fans living in enemy territory, Massachusetts!!!

55. I hate coffee. How do coffee drinkers tolerate that vile stuff?

56. I used to smoke, but I quit before I met Veronica

57. Yes, I used some recreational drugs in my youth

58. I enjoy playing and watching various sports and cheer vigorously for my favorite teams. However, I have not and will never participate in a fantasy sports league of any kind.  (Update: a friend who is a big fantasy football fan may be able to convince me to join a league next season)

59. I’m terrible about staying in touch with old friends. No one from high school, very few from college, and I don’t stay in touch with many others since then.  (Update: I’ve recently started a Facebook profile and some old friends from high school and college have found me.)

60. I’m pretty handy around the house. I can repair drywall, replace a faucet, outlet or light, overhaul the brakes on our cars, change the oil and rotate the tires, and do a complete down-to-the-frame overhaul of my bicycle.

61. Remember the swingset I’m hanging on in the Olympic HNT photos a few weeks ago? I built that myself in one weekend!  (Update: Oops, that’s out of date.  Actually, if you look on The Other HNT last August…)

62. Speaking of HNT, I’ve discovered that I like exposing myself on the internet   Hope you appreciate it!

63. I am soooo looking forward to watching Veronica have sex with another woman! Oh, and maybe I can join in? A dream come true!  (Update: this has happened numerous times since I originally wrote this!!!!)

64. I worked my way through my masters degree program as a personal trainer at a health club

65. Other random jobs over the years- pizza delivery man, offset printing press operator, full service gas station attendant, airline cargo operations truck driver, cardiac rehabilitation group exercise leader, maintenance/handy man for a chain of day care centers, and retail.

66. I wear either Calvin Klein microfiber trunks (thanks for discovering those, Veronica) or go commando

67. My drag queen name would be Holly Franklin.

68. It’s a life goal to visit every major league baseball park. So far, Shea Stadium, Yankee Stadium, Fenway Park, Coors Field, Petco Park, US Cellular Field, and Turner Field have been crossed off the list.  This year we’re tentatively talking about hitting Philly, Baltimore and Washington DC in one weekend, if schedules agree.

69. I used to have a commercial driver’s license, related to my airline cargo operations job.

70. I had a one day stint as a hand model. Don’t remember what for or what happened with the pictures

71. While I was in the room for the birth of both of our children, I declined the offer to see either of them come out. If I had seen Veronica like that, I don’t know how long it would have been until I could have sex with her again!

72. However, I did cut both kids umbilical cords and did the first diaper change for both.

73. No, I did not watch Darling Boy get circumcised.

74. While we’re on the topic of painful cuts, I’ve had a vasectomy. DB and PP are it for us! BTW, according to Veronica, there was no change in the taste of my cum, in case you were wondering

75. I have never sat through an entire episode of ANY reality TV program

76. There is no amount of alcohol that would get me to sing karaoke

77. I don’t do facial hair well. I’ve tried the goatee look and it just doesn’t look good on me

78. Speaking of hair, it’s receding and thinning, dammit! One of these days I’m giving up and shaving my head

79. Yes, I’m a hypocrite. If at age 15 DB confides that he got his first blowjob, I’m giving him a high five and asking if she swallowed. On the other hand, I find out that PP gives a blowjob at age 15, she’s getting locked in her room until she’s 21!

80. I believe that all professional cheerleaders should wear nothing more than a thong and pasties. OK, not really, but it could make watching some games more interesting!

81. I’m confused about who decided that Angelina Jolie is hot. It wasn’t me! And the same can be said for any number of other celebrities or pseudo-celebrities

82. When I was a teenager I had my driver’s license revoked for 6 months because I had too many speeding tickets

83. My very first weekend away at college I got so drunk I puked in my own bed and got a half-hearted blowjob from a girl whose name I did not know and never saw again. No, those events did not happen on the same night!

84. In what must have been a case of the lesser of 2 evils, I was elected general manager of the campus radio station for my junior year. If you’ve ever heard me speak, I don’t exactly have a voice made for radio

85. Speaking of the radio station, Veronica and I once had sex in the broadcast studio while I was on the air!

86. Except for the first year or 2 we were dating, we have more sex now, after 19 years together, than at any other time in our relationship

87. I once organized and refereed a jello-wrestling tournament

88. I had my first real kiss at 11, fingered a girl when I was 14, got my first blowjob at 15, but didn’t loss my virginity until I was 20. WTF?

89. I hate talking or arguing politics

90. I hope we’re doing a good job raising our kids

91. I think that drowning is an absolutely terrifying way to die

92. I don’t understand homophobia or the objections to gay marriage

93. I think athleticism and physical fitness embodies my ideal of female attractiveness and sexuality

94. Veronica is rather fond of my cock and says it’s the thickest and 2nd longest (and the longest was too long for her) that she has ever had. Given the number of lovers she had before me, I’m very pleased with her opinion of me!  (Update: With our swinging activities she’s had others that are bigger than me, but I’m still her favorite )

95. I’m only mildly concerned about the state of the economy (Update: OK, slightly more than mildly concerned now.  With the declining housing market, we owe more than our house is worth)

96. Places I want to visit, in no particular order- the Grand Canyon, Las Vegas, Italy, London, Australia, Hawaii, the Himalayas, Paris

97. Someday Veronica and I will spend a week at a couples only Hedonism-type resort in the Caribbean

98. I have always found it easy to develop good friendships with women, less so with other men

99. If our 3some and swinger adventures absolutely fail and Veronica is the only woman I ever have sex with in my life, I’ll still die a happy man  (Update: Fail? HA!  In the last year I’ve had sex with numerous women besides my wife!  God, I’m becoming such a slut!)

100. My life is better every day because of Veronica and the kids!!!!