Swing Shift Volume 22- Drugs and D/s

Before we address this weeks questions, I’d like to try something new.  I got a question from a loyal reader that could benefit for more than just our perspective.  She wrote the following:

How do you balance and/or separate your “everyday” life and your “swinger” life?

Obviously your non-swinging friends and family and co-workers don’t know about this other side of your life. And your swinging friends aren’t the ones you’d invite to a family barbecue with your folks. Or a playdate with the kids. Or would you? Do you ever feel like you are leading a double life? Do you keep the two areas compartmentalized? Or do they bleed over into each other?

I’m curious about how people might approach that aspect of discreet polyamory.

If any of you would like to share your experiences with keeping lifestyle and everyday life apart [or not] for inclusion in next weeks post, please e-mail me at hubman38 at gmail dot com.  If you’d prefer to remain anonymous, just let me know, or else I’ll assume otherwise.

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This week is a two-for-one deal [just like me and Veronica.  hehehe]. First up is a question about drug use in the lifestyle:

Have you done a story about drugs/alcohol in the lifestyle? Perhaps you have some stories to tell? I’m very curious about that. I have a sneaking suspicion that it’s perhaps a little more prevalent than in the general population. Lowering inhibitions kind of comes with the territory if you know what I mean.

Veronica: To be honest, Hubman and I have not been to tons of different clubs and parties to really have a huge sample for comparison.  There were some people smoking pot at the 1st swinger party we every went to, but we could go to Hubman’s sister’s house and also find people smoking pot so I don’t take that as a lifestyle thing.  With the exception of the Jello shots served at our favorite party group, it’s usually BYOB, so if someone wants to over-indulge they certainly can, it just takes a little planning ahead.  Also for the men, if you drink to excess, you might have performance issues later so it is not in everyone’s best interest to drink.   In my experience the only drug I think is being used in any significant quantity is Viagra or its ilk. In my opinion It’s the only way I can think of that these guys age 50+ can get it up so easily for round 2.

Never mind for round 2, how about to start! On numerous occasions we’ve been at a party, people start ditching their clothes, and I notice a man who has not overtly starting playing with someone yet who is already hard with NO physical stimulation.  Or, they’re standing around after playing with someone, no clothes on, chatting with friends, and the man’s erection isn’t going down.  That just doesn’t seem natural to me and I do have to wonder if there was some pharmaceutical assistance going on…

Aside from the pot smoking that Veronica has already mentioned, I haven’t noticed any illegal drug use in the lifestyle.  As far as alcohol use, I don’t think there is any more than you’d find in a ‘vanilla’ gathering of adults.  Alcohol is a good social lubricant, as we all know, especially our host friends and their evil jello shots!  In fact, our preferred first date with a new couple is conversation and flirting over dinner and drinks.  Speaking of which, we have a first date on Saturday night!  Anyway…

Our second question comes from a reader with an interest in D/s:

You said you were running out of material for the Swing Shift and wanted questions, so I was wondering…do you come across many D/s couples in the lifestyle?

Veronica: We have not come across any D/s couples that we know of.  The feeling I get for our area of the world is Swingers are one group and D/s is another.  We did go to dinner with a couple once that did enjoy going to the fetish clubs in the area, but did not really get into if they go to observe or participate.  And Hubman and I have not gone to any of the fetish clubs to know what goes on there in terms of play (field trip Hubman?).  Most of the swinger profiles we read specifically state that they are not into pain.  And while I understand that pain is not the only or major part of a D/s relationship, I am assuming based on the amount of people who state that preference that they are not practicing a D/s relationship.

I really think that swingers and people into BDSM fall into 2 distinct groups, though I’m sure that there are exceptions.  Just for the hell of it, I looked at the profiles of the 8 couples in our inbox.  Five of the 8 couples specifically mentioned no pain, no humiliation, no BDSM or some similar variant in the “Things we dislike sexually” section. [Before someone slams me, I'm aware that there is a ton of variety under the umbrella term "BDSM".]  Then I checked out Fetlife, and the sign-up section doesn’t even have an option for couples.  It sure seems to me like swinging and D/s are mutually exclusive.

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What do you think, dear readers? Is drug and/or alcohol use more or less prevalent in the lifestyle? Do any of you know people who are swingers AND into D/s?  As always, thoughts and comments are most welcome, as are suggestions for future volumes of Swing Shift.  If you prefer to remain anonymous, just e-mail me at hubman38 at gmail dot com.

I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m really not looking forward to work this week.  Between holidays, a conference, and a day off for personal reasons, I didn’t work a 5-day week for the entire month of November.

Livening Up The Holidays

We all cope with family gatherings in our own way.  Veronica and I? We sneak into bathrooms and take self-pics to text to each other.  And for select friends who are doing the same.

A friend sent me a picture of her blouse pulled up to show me her boob.  So I thought I’d repay the favor…

*Click-click to see what other types of pictures we shared*

Before we hit the road for NY on Thursday morning, Veronica made sure to show me her lingerie choice for the day…

*click-click to see the picture she took from her mother’s room*

And just like that, we survived another holiday excursion to NY, thanks to some picture sharing with our friends!

While we’re not going anywhere for Christmas and no family is coming to spend the day with us, I’m hoping that Santa is fooled into thinging I’ve been good this year [a long shot, I know!] and I get the digital SLR I’ve been coveting, giving me a cheap excuse to share more naughty holiday pictures, courtesy of my new toy

Blogger-Giving and Friday Fill-ins

Veronica and I have half-heartedly joked that maybe it would have been easiest to stay home and rather than prepare Thanksgiving dinner for 4, to invite some of our blogger friends and have a big old feast at our house.

(Veronica: I wasn’t joking.  I love to cook and entertain and I love Thanksgiving. )

On Twitter yesterday, it certainly seemed like some of you would welcome an alternative to celebrating Thanksgiving with your family.  And god knows that while I love Veronica’s family, if I could avoid the Boston-NY drive on a holiday weekend, that would be perfect!

Veronica: So Blogger-giving it is.  I am always willing to stay home and cook for Thanksgiving, but to me cooking a Thanksgiving dinner for two adults just never seemed like fun.  Having several blogger friends over to hang out, eat and drink WAY too much and have a group supervision of the little people, (or if someone brings an older tween, I will be happy to pay him or her off to keep order amongst the troops) would be incredible.

I would also be happy to skip the drive to NY for the following reasons:

1. The traffic and drive always annoys Hubman and makes him cranky.

2. The kids don’t always enjoy the drive and listening to the variety of ways they can ask “are we there yet?” gets annoying.

3. I am missing the Macy’s Day parade.  I love the parade.   I will also argue with anyone that while everyone should get the opportunity to see the parade live once in their lives in order to appreciate the scale of the balloons, it is one of the few live events that is actually better on television.

So here is the Top 9 Reasons to attend Blogger Giving at Hubman and Veronica’s

1. An awesome (adult only) group HNT of everyone’s butt’s.

2. A  lovely breakfast on Thursday with parade viewing.

3. A full Thanksgiving dinner (perhaps we can do it Italian style and even have ravioli)

4. Football!  Football!  Football!

5. Lots of Booze.

6. Veronica insisting that we all crash at whatever guests are staying at the Local Holiday Inn Express so we can swim off dinner in the pool.

7. On Friday, a road trip to Plymouth Rock to see the replica of the Mayflower and enjoy the history.

8. Lots of food, fun, and friendly conversation with people who do not know every button to push or any magical phrases to make you feel guilty.

9. For those who have kids, hopefully there will be tons of kids around so they will all play with each other and not bug the parents.  Then if the weather’s nice we can have the kiddy table outside!

Sound like fun?  Well in September we will be mentioning the idea again and any of our regular commenters/emailers/friends will be welcome to join us.

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And…here we go!

1. Wait! Wait, don’t forget to pick up Darling Boy at the airport today! (He spent the week at my mom’s in Pittsburgh and is rejoining us today.)

2. One orgasm followed at once by another orgasm is delightful.

3. The trouble is I really want to take some pictures for a friend, but staying at Veronica’s aunts is not conducive to naughty picture taking.  Gotta get creative.

4. My own bed, my wonderful comfy bed, is many miles away.

5. With a faint pop I stood up and my creaky knees reminded me that I’m not as young as I used to be.

6. The sky today is shadowy and ominous.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to hanging out with my 7-months-pregnant sister and BIL at their new house, tomorrow my plans include driving back home to Boston and Sunday, I want to go for a run, watch football, and catch up on a ton of blog-reading!

Hope all who celebrate it had a Happy Thanksgiving!

HNT I Believe

I Believe… That just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.  And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do love each other.

I Believe….That we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I Believe…That no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I Believe….That it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I Believe…That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I Believe… That you can keep going long after you think you can’t.

I Believe…That we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I Believe…That either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I Believe…That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I Believe…That money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I Believe…That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I Believe….That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

I Believe….That  sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I Believe…That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I Believe…That it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I Believe…That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I Believe….That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but, we are responsible for who we become.

I Believe…Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I Believe…That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don’t even know you.

I Believe…That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you – you will find the strength to help.

I Believe…That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I Believe…The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything.

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I wanted to do something to recognize that today is Thanksgiving here in the US, but I couldn’t think of a way to portray all that I’m thankful for.  Besides, you’re probably just here for the nekkidness

Veronica however is showing something that she’s grateful for.  Osbasso is the man to see for the rest of the nekkidness and there is always The Other HNT for NSFW fun.

Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday!

Tricky Balls

A few weeks ago I wrote about a new toy I got for myself, for ass play and prostate stimulation.  Well, the way the tip of it is curved, Veronica thought that it might also work well for G-spot stimulation.  See?

The other night, we’re fucking and she decides that she’d like to try it in her pussy.  Oh yeah, I guess I should mention that we were already having anal sex.  Anyway…

She slips the toy inside her, presses the button on the base a few times to find a vibration pattern that she likes, and we get back to business.  I’m happy fucking away, enjoying the vibrations coursing through her pelvis, when I notice the vibrations changing. But her hands are by her head, how’s this happening?  Did I mention that the speed control is a button on the base?  Click here if you’re having trouble with the visual, but be warned, it’s NSFW.

Apparently, as I’m fucking Veronica, my balls were slapping the base of the toy and pushing the vibration control button, changing the speed!

I wonder if there are any other tricks I can get my balls to do?

On a sorta-related note, if you go back to the post I link to at the top, you’ll notice that I was a little disappointed in the toy.  But a blogger friend of mine graciously pointed out some other prostate stimulation toys that have better reviews, so I took her advice and ordered one.  It should arrive Friday or Saturday

Happy Hump Day!

Blog Pimping, Degrees of NSFW, Bonus Pictures

I wanted to take the opportunity to pimp some other blogs I participate in, ’cause I think they’re cool and I think you should read them!

Hot Dads- I was one of the original contributors when it was started and while I don’t post as often as I should, thankfully there are almost 20 other guys who also contribute.  “Ask the Hot Dads” is one of the most popular semi-regular features and if you visit on Tuesday, I think there’s a giveaway going on.

In the Real World: Mars vs. Venus- This is the brain-child of Shelle, author of BlokThoughts, and is all about relationships and men’s and women’s differing points of view on things.  The usual formula is that each week there are 2 topics, each addressed by a man and woman and similar to Hot Dad’s there are about 20 contributors, including yours truly. You should visit today if only because my wife Veronica is the newest contributor and her first post is scheduled for today!

Last week I was contacted by a fellow blogger and asked for my thoughts on anonymity in the blogosphere, along with a few other bloggers some of you might be familiar with.  Her blog is The Dogged Pursuit of Happiness and at the very least, I suggest you check out her post on anonymity.

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Just like TV show ratings, I think there should be variations on NSFW content. [Content liberally borrowed from Deadspin]

What if I work on the set of a porn movie?  What if I teach kindergarten?  What if I have my own office?  What if 23 people can see my computer at any given moment?  What’s pretty safe for work unless you have an uptight boss.  What’s kind of safe for work?  What’s risky but worth it, as long as you time it right?  What’s brazen and bold and could get you in some trouble?  And what’s absolutely, positively not to be viewed except in the privacy of your own closet at 3 a.m.?

NSFW just doesn’t cut it, and everyone seems to have a different idea of what that is.

You’ll notice a lot of guys toss in the EXTREMELY NSFW warning when it’s hardcore porn you’re about to click on. That helps. But otherwise, I suggest we make like the TV ratings and add suffixes that indicate content.

NSFWL — NSFW language. Believe it or not, some offices frown on even bad language on sites. Fucking commies.

NSFWSN — NSFW soft nudity

NSFWHN — NSFW hard nudity

NSFWT — NSFW thong

NSFWCC — NSFW cheesecake (not nudity, but bikinis and lingerie and what not)

NSFWF — NSFW fisting. Yes, we’ve experimented with this.  Yes, there are pictures.  No, you can’t see them!

HAVE A GREAT DAY!!

Swing Shift Volume 21- Different Strokes for Different Swingers

On Saturday I tweeted “I need suggestions for Mondays Swing Shift blog post. Any questions you’d like @VeronicaASM & I to tackle?” and a follower who I’m assuming wants to stay anonymous DM’d me this suggestion:

Swing shift: talk re: different types of swingers- those who play with lots o people vs those who are “exclusive” to 1 or 2 other couples?

In our experience we’ve come across couples that span the full spectrum, from those looking for the next one night stand to those looking for that special couple to have a long-term relationship with.

Veronica:  I think that there is a broad spectrum with swinging.  What I have found with some people is that they do not want a long term exclusive relationship with another couple because it is monogamy, and monogamy is not their preference.   I also think that the more time you spend with a couple, the more emotional attachments you form whether you are trying to or not and this can complicate things.

I find that perusing the ads that many couples claim that they are looking for that special couple or couples for a long term relationship, but I think that some of them are saying that so they do not appear slutty to the reader.

If you are going into swinging looking for a long term polyamorous relationship, chances are you are going to have to fuck a lot of frogs before you meet your polyamorous prince and princess.   If you want to play frequently, a monogamous relationship with one couple is probably not going to satisfy your needs.  The reality is that scheduling things between four people can be challenging enough.  Throw in the schedules of  childrens activities, assorted relatives and vanilla friends and you are realistically looking at being able to play once a month, at best on a regular basis.

Another issue you can run into is if emotional attachments are formed.   While Hubman would not mind if I became emotionally attached to the female half of a couple and hung out with her for shopping or fun girl times, he might have an issue if I formed a similar attachment to the man.  I might also have issues if Hubman wanted to hang out with the female half of the couple without me.  On the other hand, with some of our female playmates, Hubman and I are deeply attached to them, and while geography does not allow us to play as frequently as we would like, we still consider them to be very special to us.   This is where careful communication comes in.  The primary focus of a couple in the lifestyle or not, should be the primary couple.  Getting attached to another couple can cloud that focus if care is not taken in regular communication.

I’ve been delaying writing this all day, in part because of the plans I thought we were going to have tonight [it's a little after 8pm Sunday as I'm writing this].  We haven’t seen Paul and Sally since just before Labor Day, and we’ve swapped with them 3 times before.  Some of you might remember the line about us “we’re good people and we’re fun to fuck”- Sally said that about us.  Anyway, I really had my hopes that they would be able to come over tonight, but it seems that my hopes are going to be dashed.

Which brings me to the topic of this post, in a roundabout way.  In my experience, the best times have not been the first time with any partners, but the subsequent times.  The first time, you’re at the beginning of the learning curve, so to speak, of what a lover likes and dislikes, how she responds, etc.  So while I certainly enjoy the first time exploration with a new lover, I enjoy the slightly more familiar of subsequent times with a lover even more.  Which is where we are at with Paul and Sally- there is a familiarity with them, yet it’s still a fairly new relationship.  As we spend more time with them [hopefully!!], our friendship will grow, bringing Veronica and I closer to what we’re looking for, a true friends with benefits situation.

In the lifestyle, there are certainly opportunities for casual sex and one-night stands, which we’ve taken advantage of.  But I’d like to think that every couple we’ve swapped with has been with the hope that it was the start of a relationship, it just hasn’t always worked out that way.  Looking back at our past partners, I can’t think of one couple that we swapped with that we had no intention of ever seeing again.

When you get right down to it, ‘dating’ in the swinging lifestyle is really no different than ‘regular’ dating- there are men and women looking for one-night stands, friends with benefits, and even long-term loving relationships.

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Okay fellow swingers, share your thoughts, please.  We would especially like to know from our fellow swingers, what is your experience with this?  Do you think more swingers are looking for one night stands or short term relationships instead of a long term or polyamorous relationship?

Veronica and I are running out of ideas for future editions of Swing Shift, so please either e-mail me at hubman38 at gmail dot com or leave a comment with your questions or ideas.

Typical Saturday Night

It’s been a while since Veronica and I have had a quiet Saturday night at home.  Don’t get me wrong, we’ve enjoyed having friends visit us, going out to parties, and she had a great trip to see family in NY.  But between all those events, we haven’t had a quiet, relaxing Saturday evening at home in 5 weeks.

Sometimes, you just want to sit around, have a nice family dinner, watch some college football, then get nekkid and naughty with your spouse once the kids are asleep.  Finally, last night was one of those nights.  Of course, Princess Persistent had a birthday party to go to, so it wasn’t perfect, but it did wear her out, ensuring she went to sleep at a reasonable time.  [Random question- who the heck plans a birthday party for 3- and 4-yr olds for 6pm on a Saturday?]

I pass the time while Veronica and PP are gone watching TV with Darling Boy, chatting online with a friend or two and getting to know a new friend on Twitter. By the time the girls return home, it’s about bedtime for the kids.

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Veronica emerges from the bedroom wearing one of her favorite babydoll nighties and suggests it’s time to turn off the TV.  No need to tell me twice, so we retire to the bedroom.  Candles are lit, lights are dimmed, lube is strategically placed within easy reach.  She slides into bed beside me to find me naked and erect.  Wasting no time, she moves down my body and takes me into her mouth.  Not satisfied with that, she quickly rolls over, faces away from me, and lifts her leg, inviting me to enter her.

Sliding back and forth, I run my hands over her curves, delighting in the feel of her buttery-soft skin and the moans of pleasure emanating from deep within her.  No words are spoken, as none are needed, for several minutes.

I withdraw and move away. She looks at me and wonders

What are you doing?

Get on your knees

She wants this as much as I do, so she quickly moves, ready to take me from behind. I roughly enter her, holding her hips and fucking her now, not the tender side-by-side love making of a few moments ago.  Knowing what she really wants tonight, I reach for the lube and let a little drop on her delicate rosebud.  Continuing to stroke her pussy, my thumb finds her rear entrance and I gently rub the lube in, tracing circles, ever-so-slightly entering, feeling her yield.  Pressing deeper, she moans her approval…

I withdraw from her, apply a little more lube, and press in, just a little bit, no more than my cockhead really, allowing her to relax and accept me.  She pushes back, I stay still, she pushes back some more, until I’m in, all the way in.  We return to gently fucking for a few minutes, allowing her to get accustomed to me.

You can pound me now if you want

Soon enough, my love.  What’s the rush?

I reach over to the drawer and pull out a toy, handing it to her.

Here, use this

She pushes the silver bullet inside her pussy and I quickly feel the vibrations coursing through her pelvis as she cranks up the intensity on the remote.  Now it’s time for the pounding her wants.

I push her down, she’s laying flat on the bed, legs wide and ass tilted up at me. What follows is pure animalistic fucking accompianed by grunts, groans, incoherant utterings and random exclamations to a diety.  I release inside her and collapse on top of her.  Brushing her hair aside, I kiss the base of her neck and whisper in her ear “I love you”

We clean up, crawl back into bed, cuddle up together and drift off to sleep.

Just a regular Saturday night at home.

No editing was applied, this is what an iPhone picture taken by candlelight looks like

Family Pictures

I have very few family pictures from my childhood.  Not because they don’t exist, but because either my mom, dad or sister ended up with all of them when my childhood home was sold [My parents divorced when I was 16 and the house was sold a few years later when my sister graduated high school].  Then last winter my dad gave me this treat:

Anyone old enough to remember 35mm slides?  That is 21 slide carousels, each with 100 slides, plus there are another 200 or so loose slides.  They’ve been sitting in my basement for almost year now.

The best part? My dad still had the projector, but it was broken.  I didn’t even try to find someone to repair a late-1960’s Bell and Howell slide projector. The only way I can view them, short of holding them up to the light, is with this little gadget:

It’s a manual slide viewer.  You load about 20 slides into the right side of the machine, then by pushing and pulling the gray handle on the right, you advance one slide at a time into the viewer, and viewed slides are stacked up on the left.

Veronica and I have been looking into having all of these slides digitized.  We first thought about buying a slide scanner, but they’re not cheap, we’d only use it for this one project, and frankly, I don’t have the time to scan 2000+ slides.

Then Veronica found some businesses that specialize in slide-to-digital transfer. Yeah, at a cost of $0.45 per slide.  No thanks.  So we’re still looking.  In the meanwhile, this weekend I’m going to start taking every last slide out of the carousels, deciding if any of them should be tossed, then organizing them for shipping to someone to digitize.  It’ll probably end up costing us several hundred dollars anyway, but these slides span a 12 yr period starting 4 yrs before I was born, so it’s not like I can just say ‘fuck it’ and throw them all out.

Besides, who knows what gems we mind find in the collection.  Maybe something like this:

I said I have a few childhood pics, not no childhood pics!  This was taken after my first haircut.

All together now- “Awwww…….”

e[lust] #1

Just as I discovered Sugasm and submitted something, it went on indefinite hiatus.  Leave it to the wonderful Dangerous Lilly to pick up the reigns and create e[lust] to fill the void.  Enjoy!

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HNT Courtesy of Coy Pink

Welcome to the first edition of e[lust]! Below is your source for inspirations of lust and sexual intelligence from a wide range of sex bloggers. Want to be included in the next edition? Submission period opens for e[lust] # 2 on November 20th – subscribe to the RSS feed and Twitter for all updates! Check out the submission guidelines and rules of general conduct here.

This week’s top three picks as chosen by fellow e[lust] participants:

At Your Service - His hand pushes on my thigh and I turn away from him, allowing him to inspect my ass. His hands spread my ass cheeks and again I flood with wetness.

Cinderella – “‘I want to fuck you…’ he growled, nipping at her neck and kissing down over her breasts, biting at her nipples through the fabric, making her cry out.

Anal Sex Pt 2: The Ins and Outs of Butt Sex - Butt sex is what you make of it. Enjoy yourselves, be careful, and try everything that looks interesting.

Editor’s Pick:

The Slut Chronicles #5 – The Flight Delay – “When her eye caught his blatantly checking her out, he only grinned wider, with no remorse at all and it was she who blushed furiously.”

A note from the editor: And so it begins…

See also: Pleasurist’s #54 for your sex toy review needs.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days.  Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Writing

Just A Little Taste
Older and Better Than Ever
Good Morning
Your Eyes
MFM: The Student. The Teacher.
Get Me Off
The Club & Introductory Note
Don’t Come
The City
Howl at the Moon
Rimjob
Consumed
The Devil Inside
One of the Greats
Room Service

Kink & Fetish

A Busy Night
Bad Taste?
Protocols
The Illusion of Beginning: Pt 1
“You hit me…”
Reconnecting
Too Many Buttons
Nadia’s Wishing Box
The Mason Jar
So Sexy Boots

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Swing Shift Vol. 18 – Safe Sex and Getting Tested
Libido Resurrection Programme™
Check Up
Oh, Baby, Baby
UnderRated: Fucking the Mind

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Vixen Invites
I’m Quoted in Time Out NY!
Top Five Tuesday – Euro Studs
She Makes Me Feel Like a Whore